Distributing over parentheses,
[tex]\begin{gathered} -3\cdot1+(-3)\cdot6r=14-r \\ -3-18r=14-r \end{gathered}[/tex]Adding r at both sides,
[tex]\begin{gathered} -3-18r+r=14-r+r \\ -3-17r=14 \end{gathered}[/tex]Adding 3 at both sides,
[tex]\begin{gathered} -3-17r+3=14+3 \\ -17r=17 \end{gathered}[/tex]Dividing by -17 at both sides,
[tex]\begin{gathered} \frac{-17r}{-17}=\frac{17}{-17} \\ r=-1 \end{gathered}[/tex]