I need to solve for x. I'm so confused with the whole 'Slide splitting theorem' thing

Triangles JFE and JLK are similar provided that line segments FE and LK are parallel. This means that corresponding parts of these triangles occur proportionally to one another. In particular,
[tex]\dfrac{JF}{JL}=\dfrac{JE}{JK}=\dfrac{FE}{LK}[/tex]
From this relation we get
[tex]\dfrac{JF}{JL}=\dfrac{JE}{JK}\implies\dfrac{(3x+21)-12}{12}=\dfrac{56}{70}[/tex]
Now we can solve for [tex]x[/tex]:
[tex]\dfrac{3x+9}{12}=\dfrac45[/tex]
[tex]3x+9=12\cdot\dfrac45=\dfrac{48}5[/tex]
[tex]3x=\dfrac{48}5-9=\dfrac35[/tex]
[tex]x=\dfrac{\frac35}3=\dfrac15[/tex]