After 2 months Xian and his cousin will have 88 stamps each.
Explanation
Suppose, Xian and Kai will have the same number of stamps after [tex]t[/tex] months.
Xian has 64 stamps, and Kai has 72 stamps. Xian's club will send him 12 new stamps per month and Kai's club will send him 8 new stamps per month.
So, the total number of stamps Xian will have after [tex]t[/tex] months [tex]=64+12t[/tex]
and the total number of stamps kai will have after [tex]t[/tex] months [tex]= 72+8t[/tex]
As, they will have same number of stamps after [tex]t[/tex] months, so...
[tex]64+12t= 72+8t\\ \\ 12t-8t= 72-64\\ \\ 4t= 8\\ \\ t=\frac{8}{4}=2[/tex]
So, they will have same number of stamps after 2 months.
If [tex]t=2[/tex], then....
[tex]64+12t=64+12(2)= 64+24=88[/tex]
and [tex]72+8t= 72+8(2)= 72+16= 88[/tex]
So, each will have 88 stamps after 2 months.