Let's consider a normal line that is perpendicular to the curve in the first quadrant at the abcissa [tex]a[/tex]. Being locally perpendicular to the curve, its slope is perpendicular to the curve's local slope, which is its derivative at [tex]a[/tex]. The derivative of [tex]x^2[/tex] is [tex]2x[/tex] hence the curve's local slope at that point is [tex]2a[/tex]. As a result, the normal line's slope is [tex]-\frac{1}{2a}[/tex]. The normal line's curve's equation is thus of the form [tex]-\frac{1}{2a}x+b[/tex]. What is more, its value at [tex]a[/tex] is [tex]a^2[/tex] hence [tex]a^2=-\frac{1}{2a}a+b[/tex] thus [tex]b=x_0^2+\frac{1}2[/tex]. Hence the equation of the normal line is [tex]\boxed{y=-\frac{1}{2a}x+a^2+\frac{1}2}[/tex]
Let's proceed to finding where it intercept the curve in the second quadrant. We have to solve [tex]x^2=-\frac{1}{2a}x+a^2+\frac{1}2[/tex]. This equation's discriminant is [tex]\Delta=\frac{1}{4a^2}+4\left(a^2+\frac{1}2\right)\ \textgreater \ 0[/tex]. This yields two solutions [tex]x=\dfrac{-\frac{1}{2a}\pm\sqrt{\Delta}}{2}[/tex], one of which is negative (and hence in the second quadrant), that is [tex]\boxed{x=\dfrac{-\frac{1}{2a}-\sqrt{\frac{1}{4a^2}+4\left(a^2+\frac{1}2\right)}}{2}}[/tex].
The "extreme normal line" is the one for which that absissa is the greatest (i.e. the closest to [tex]0[/tex] since they're negative). Let us this derive [tex]x(a)[/tex] with respect to [tex]a[/tex] : [tex]x'(a)=-\frac{1}2\left[-\frac{1}{a^2}+\dfrac{-\frac{8a^3}+8a}{2\sqrt{\frac{1}{4a^2}+4(a^2+\frac{1}2)}}\right][/tex]. [tex]x'(a)=0\Leftrightarrow 2\sqrt{\underset{\frac{(4a^2+1)^2}{4a^2}}{\underbrace{\frac{1}{4a^2}+4(a^2+\frac{1}2)}}}+\frac{1}{8a^3}-8a=0
\Leftrightarrow 1-64a^4+8(4a^2+1)=0[/tex].
Setting [tex]A=a^2[/tex], this leads to [tex]A^2-\frac{A}2-\frac{9}{64}=0[/tex], whose positive root is [tex]A=\frac{1}4+\frac{\sqrt{13}}8[/tex]. This yields [tex]\boxed{a=\sqrt{\frac{1}4+\frac{\sqrt{13}}8}}[/tex].
The equation of the extreme normal line is therefore [tex]\boxed{y=-\frac{x}{2a}+a^2+\frac{1}2,a=\sqrt{\frac{1}4+\frac{\sqrt{13}}8}}}[/tex]
The second question is extremely similar to this one, so I'll just show you the right track :
Let's call [tex]d(a)=\dfrac{-\frac{1}{2a}-\sqrt{\frac{1}{4a^2}+4\left(a^2+\frac{1}2\right)}}{2}[/tex] the abcissa of the intersection of a normal ine at [tex]a[/tex] and the curve, which we have computed before. The area between the normal line and the curve is [tex]\int_{d(a)}^ax^2 dx=\left[\frac{x^3}3\right]_{d(a)}^a=\frac{1}3\left(a^3-d^3(a)\right)[/tex]. Now, derive this with respect to [tex]a[/tex] in order to find its extrema. You will some [tex]a_0[/tex] at which it is minimum, and hence the equation of the normal line that traps the least area between itself and the curve will be [tex]y=-\frac{x}{2a_0}+a_0^2+\frac{1}2[/tex]
Don't hesitate to ask if you have any question :-) it's a very interesting problem !