please just tell me what I'm doing wrong, don't tell me the answer, i need to figure it out.

we have the expression
[tex]\frac{x}{x^2-16}-\frac{3}{x-4}[/tex]REmember that
x^2-16=(x+4)(x-4)
substitute
[tex]\frac{x}{(x+4)(x-4)}-\frac{3}{x-4}[/tex]Multiply by (x+4)/(x+4) the second term
[tex]\begin{gathered} \frac{x}{(x+4)(x-4)}-\frac{3}{x-4}_{}\cdot\frac{x+4}{x+4} \\ \\ \frac{x}{(x+4)(x-4)}-\frac{3x+12}{(x-4)(x+4)}_{} \end{gathered}[/tex]Adds fractions with the same denominator
[tex]\begin{gathered} \frac{x-3x-12}{(x+4)(x-4)} \\ \\ \frac{-2x-12}{(x+4)(x-4)} \end{gathered}[/tex]Factor minus
[tex]-\frac{2x+12}{(x+4)(x-4)}[/tex]Factor 2
[tex]-\frac{2(x+6)}{(x+4)(x-4)}[/tex]