I understand the game is real in some ways and in others its not. In some ways the game is real because children grow and get report cards, but the elderly shouldn't be able to move like young people do. The game is real because its hard deciding whether or not you want to live with that person for the rest of your life, but a baby does't appear because i pressed yes. I understand that people can get depressed if they don't have any friends, but i don't think anyone would starve them selves... i hope this helps?...