To find the molar enthalpy change follow these steps:
1) find the amount of heat released in this experiment, that is Q=mcT, where m is the mass or volume of solution used, T is the rise/drop in temperature and C is the specific heat capacity of water which is 4.18
2) divide this value by 1000 to convert it into kJ
3) divide the value of energy released by number of moles , that is, mass/Mr